Valuable Speed Dating Tips For Women

Everyone loves those first date butterflies. The anticipation gives you a natural edge as you sit down and meet someone new.  With speed dating you are given multiple opportunities to feel that rush. Here are some tips to make sure you enjoy that ride. As creators of one of Melbourne’s most fun dating events, we got some advice for women when it comes to entering the world of speed dating.

  • Keep eye contact. Don’t look away and always focus on your man. This will help you build a chemistry between each other while showing interest and giving him the opportunity to wow you.

  • Keep the emotions inside. Don’t blabber on about your ex’s, or why you can’t find a ‘nice guy’. Avoid defeatist talk and things that are bothering you at the moment. There will be plenty of time for that later. Focus on the positives of your life and keep it fun.

  • This isn’t a job interview. Remember that before any real connection is made, you shouldn’t go about interviewing your date about his life. Try to find common interests and keep things easy.

  • Be confident! Men love women that are confident about themselves and act like themselves. Don’t pretend to be someone else. Be yourself and be positive about your life.

  • Smile. A smile goes a long way in a conversation. Smile often and be happy that you’re out and about meeting new people. You’re most inviting when you are smiling to your date.

  • Dress to impress. Look good! But remember not to go overboard or crazy. Keep it simple, clean and sophisticated.

    Who cares about the rejection? Remember that not every date you meet is going to end in love. Don’t take rejection as a personal thing. Sometimes things just don’t click and that does not make it your fault.