Last month, we discussed some valuable tips for men when they date a woman. Well, the time has come to give you an insight into the other side. We have spoken to a few guys on what to do and what not to do when dating a guy!
Don’t always assume you’re going to the nicest restaurant
Alright, men get it: you want to be spoil on the first date. But don’t always think that this is the case. Where you go to eat has nothing to do with how a man might see you; it has more to do with what he expects the date and you to be like. A casual restaurant means that he expects an easy-going and friendly conversation; a fancy place might mean he’s trying to woo you with the big life. Don’t overthink it.
Don’t over research us online
In this day and age, it is easy to research a man online and see what you get. But remember, what the online world says isn’t always right. An image is merely an image. Don’t over research and put expectations on a guy just by seeing what he is online. Go in with clean and open expectations.
It pays to pay – or at least try to!
Men don’t mind footing the bill; its part and parcel of the dating world. But nothing endears a man more than you trying to pay the bill too! You won’t have to pay as the man will make sure he foots it, but the attempt will make you think of him as equals.
Nothing kills a date more than a girl that isn’t herself or isn’t confident. Be yourself and be confident about what you do, who you are and how you live your life. Men can pick up when a girl isn’t confident in themselves. You know how women love confident men? The same goes for guys – they love confident women!
Drive the conversation
Talk and be honest! Guys love it when women are willing to drive the conversation and push themselves. There is nothing worst than a guy feeling like he has to constantly engage and keep the conversation going. Get in and drive it!
Keep it between the both of you
Sometimes a bit of alone time can go a long way. So if you are thinking about inviting the guy out on a group date, then take a step back and don’t. Don’t get us wrong, men love enough more than being included in you and your friends’ activities. But when it comes to starting things off, focus on keeping it between the two you.
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