Men, just like women, are always nervous before going on dates. So rather than panic and freak out, we have spoken to a few girls on what to do and what not to do when dating a girl!
First Impressions Matter!
Don’t turn up in track pants and a singlet. There is comfortable and there is “date comfortable”. For women, first impressions matter. So dress nicely and look the part. You don’t have to go all out with a tuxedo, but if you look smart, casual and bring out your best features, it’s going to leave a great impression on the ladies.
Women love confident men! Love them! So be yourself – however crazy and insane that is. If you are confident in who you are it will pay off. It’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you, rather being a phoney.
Offer To Pay
Yes, women expect you to pay, but times have changed and women do expect to chip in. Still, it is a big deal to offer. This will make you look like a gentleman. If she still wants to pay, suggest she gets the bill on your next date, if she wishes.
Keep The Conversation Fun & Exciting
Dates are supposed to be fun and exciting, so the keep the conversation the same. Don’t start with big, political or thorny issues. Keep it light and breezy. Enjoy the moment and have fun while doing it. You do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun and bring out the best part of you.
Don’t Drone About Crazy Women
Want to kill the mood? Ramble about past dates, crazy women or your insane ex-girlfriends. Stay clear from these topics and avoid them at all costs. Stick to the point we mentioned above and you’ll be fine.
Nothing drives women more crazy than being elusive after a date. Don’t try the whole “3 days rule” or disappear from the grid. If you are interest, talk to them! If you are not, just kindly respond that you are no longer interested. Yes, its sucks, but sometimes, it is valuable to be honest and open.
We hope that these tips have helped you when it comes to the dating world. Next month we will discussing some dating tips for women – from men!
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